Another fun week, with a new Chinese friend!
So on my birthday, we met a friend (Chinese) at the bar who speaks English pretty well. He bought me a drink and also brought over a fruit bowl with a birthday candle in it for me. We thought that he actually worked there, at the time, because he was hanging out behind the bar for most of the time that we were there.
This week I actually got to know him much better. On Monday, Di and I went to the bar for a drink. Shanon was there with a few of his friends. Shanon recognized us, but did not invite us to join his friends right away which is kind of strange for a Chinese person not to do. But, eventually we ended up singing KTV and playing pool with them for a while for the night. I started to talk with Shanon and found out that he studies Chinese at university. So, he is qualified to teach Chinese. Therefore, I took this as an opportunity to have another person teach me Chinese. His English is ok, so I volunteered to teach in English in return. During our conversation, I found out that his Chinese name is similar sounding to the name Shannon. He said that he knows that this is a girl’s name, so he took out one of the “n”s this making his name Shanon, and therefore it is no longer a girl’s name. He is 25 and owns a video production company and is the lead singer in a band. He has also played guitar for eight years. So, not only have I recruited him to the another person to teach me Chinese, but he is going to help me with the Chiense songs that I am trying to learn. Furthermore, he is going to help teach me how to play guitar! I am very excited.
Tuesday, I went to dinner with Rosie, a couch surfer who was staying with Rosie (from Australia) named Kate, Meghan, Anderw and Shanon (I thought it would be fun for him to come along to join us). It is great having a new Chinese friend in the city. He took us to a hot pot that is owned by one of his “sisters”. Chinese use the label brother and sister for some of their very close friends. It was great. We had two different types of goat, potatoes, cabbage, and tofu skin. It was really good. Then, we headed to OK Bar. I was really impressed, because Shanon’s knowledge of American music is amazing! I have not met any Chinese person who knows such much western music as he does. He knows Eddie Vedder, Kurt Korbain, etc. We had a huge conversation about his favorite singers and guitar players. He then showed us some videos of his band. His band plays covers and Shanon also writes a lot of their songs. Furtheremore, while at the bar, Shanon pulled out his phone and asked if he had seen “Two Girls. One Cup”. I was SHOCKED that a Chinese person knew that video. Meghan and I looked at each other in complete shock when this happened. Rosie, who has been in China for a few years, “unfortunately” missed this video, and so did Andrew and Kate. So, Shanon insisted on them watching it. As expected, they could only get through about 5 seconds of the video. Afterwards, Shanon said, “I hate the video, I just like watching faces of people watching”. From that point on, I decided that he is going to be the coolest of our Chinese friends in Chengde!
For the rest of the week, nothing else really going on. It is a holiday this weekend, so I do not have classes on Monday at the university. However, I do have to teach Friday, Saturday and Monday at the private school for my classes with the younger students.
Tomorrow I am going to KTV with Chris, Megan, Travis, Di, Jerry (one of our favorite students) and Shanon (maybe, if he is not too busy). Should be a good time. It is always fun going to KTV with Chinese friends because it is a fun way to learn some new characters when they sing songs in Chinese.
Saturday I will spend the afternoon hanging out with Shanon. He is going to help me learn a few new Chinese songs. I will help with his English, too. Also, we are going to go to the guitar shop and hang out with some of his friends. Yay for Chinese, Chinese songs and guitar lessons!
That’s about it. Nothing to big and exciting planned for the week and nothing really too exciting has happened recently!
Hope all is well!
Z
Friday was great. I taught from 320-5, but my class was just ok. This class is the lowest English level of all of my classes so sometimes it is rather frustrating.
After class, I went to dinner with Megan and Chris (two teachers from the teacher’s college. Travis, the other teacher from the teacher’s college joined us late. Megan and Chris brought two of their students who have great English, too. The students were Jack and Jerry. Jerry is the student who took me to his family’s home in Baoding last term. We went to a great dumpling restaurant and had some chicken and vegetable dumplings. After dinner, we wanted to do something else. So, we were debating about either KTV or going to OK Bar. We thought that since there were only five of us, that going to the bar would be a better option. So, off to the bar we went. Jerry and Jack left around 11 because they had to get back to their school. While at the bar, Shanon was there, so he came over and joined us. He was more comfortable speaking around the foreigners because we had two Chinese students with us so he wasn’t the only Chinese person. Chris and Megan left around 1230. Shanon, though, made me stay with him so we could continue to work on our songs and guitar. It was great, however he is a very mean teacher! Whenever I would do something wrong with my hands or fingers on the guitar, he would slap them and yell “wrong!”. My hands were so sore after the lesson!
Saturday was a very random day. I slept in until around 10:30, then moped the apartment. I met with Shanon for three hours to practice guitar and he also taught me a lot about Chinese music. I am still lost about some of the Chinese music he is teaching me about, but it sounds really cool. We decided that next time we meet that I would teach him about some of my favorite American music…including jazz and he only knows about American rock! After that, I did some errands around town, then was meeting up with Di to go to dinner and the bar for a drink. I was going to meet Di at the public square, because it is a close place to meet. While walking to the square, I saw a group of nine foreigners that were walking past me. So I made eye contact and said, “hello”. A few seconds later, two of the girls in the group came running over to me and asked if I knew where a good place to get food and a drink was. I said that I was going to get dinner and drinks with a friend and invited them to join. They did. It turns out that the nine of them study Chinese in Beijing. Six of them were from Spain, two from Vietnam and one from Morocco. Their English was all very good. It was a great time at dinner being able to have new foreigners to hang out with. This was the biggest group of foreigners I had hung out with in Chengde since the group of doctors in October and November! After dinner, we went to the bar. Yun the owner of the bar was very excited that we brought nine new foreigners to the bar. Also, everyone was at the bar, I ran over to the little store really quick to get some peanuts for us to munch on. While walking to the store (one block away), I saw a group of five foreigners. They asked me if I lived here and what bar was the best. I told them that I did live here and I was just going back to the bar. These five foreigners were from France, but were also studying Chinese in Beijing at Beijing Language and cultural university. So, I came back to the bar with five new foreigners. Yun, when I came back was even happier that even more foreigners came to the bar. He, later that night, through Shanon, told me that he appreciates when we suggest his bar to the foreigners who visit the city. He also gave us a discount on our drinks. While at the bar, some of the Chinse people were asking us to sing some songs in English. The bar doesn’t have the best selection of English songs, so the group of us rocked out to the songs that we knew such as, “Country Roads”. “Hey Jude”, “Seasons of Love”, “A Whole New World”, “My Boo”, and my personal favorite, “My Humps”. There was also one Spanish song, called “Ole” by Ricky Martin. The group from Spain sang the versus while the entire group sang the chorus which included us yelling “Go! Go! Go! Oley! Oley! Oley!”. Eventually by the end of the song, we had the entire bar (the 15 foreigners) and 20 Chinese people and Yun and Shanon singing the chorus and yelling “Go! Go! Go! Oley! Oley! Oley!” with us. It was crazy fun! We stayed at the bar until around 11:30. Then we went back to the hotel where the foreigners were staying at we hung out and watch a movie and just chilled. It was great having such a large group of foreigners to hang out with!
Sunday was an eventful day! The new foreigners who were visiting Chengde called me at 10. We met at KFC for coffee, then we went to two of the eight outer temples. We spent about five and a half hours going through these temples. They were absolutely beautiful. We also had a little picnic at one of the temples. I was supposed to meet with Shannon again in the afternoon, but he had to cancel. He was performing in a show in another city in the morning, but it went so well that he was asked to perform again in the afternoon. So, instead of having another guitar lesson and a Chinese lesson with him, I stayed and hung out with these new foreigners. After the temples, I suggested a good hotpot to go to. It is very close to our apartment. The hotpot was very excited when 10 foreigners decided to come and eat there. I had been there numerous times before, so the owner of the hot pot knows who I am. We were put into a private room because of the size of our group. The restaurant gave us some free vegetable dishes, one free large meat plate and a free fruit desert plate because they appreciated our business and were very happy to have so many foreigners eat the restaurant. After dinner, we debated about what to do. They caught on quickly that there is not a lot of night life within the city! So our three choices were to ktv, OK Bar, or either my apartment/their hotel to watch a movie and hang out. We decided to go to OK Bar…again! So, on the way to OK Bar we did cause a couple scenes on the street! While walking to the bar (which is about a 20 minute walk from the bar), one of the foreigners needed to stop at the ATM. While we were waiting for him, we head that a store across the street was playing the Backstreet Boy’s song, “I want it that way”. Backstreet Boys are huge here. Everyone knows them. So, the ten of us stood on the sidewalk of the very busy street (one of the main streets in the city), singing that song as loud as possible. There because a large group of Chinese people surrounding us to listen and watch what has happening. After we were done singing, one of the foreigners took of his hat to collect money, as a joke. The people who were watching then quickly left and some were laughing about how some of the foreigners were jokingly asking for money. We then continued on to the bar. This time at the bar, we decided that signing KTV was not going to be something to do. So, we played some cards instead. While at the bar, the Chinese like to play a game that looks like the drinking game played with dice from the movie “The Prirates of the Carribbean”. Well, we got some dice from Yun and decided to make up our own version of the game. After that, one of the foreigners pulled out her deck of Uno! Cards from her purse. We played Uno! It was a lot of fun. I had not played that game for so long! We had a lot of Chinese people watching while we played, because they had not seen the game before. After we finished playing. Shanon invited me over to learn how to play some Chinese card games. The foreigners left around 12 midnight, but Shanon would not let me leave because we were in the middle of the game. Playing the card games was Yun, Shanon, Jennifer and Harry. Jennifer is Shanon’s girlfriend (she is Chinese) and Harry is a Chinese friend of Shanon’s who hangs out at the bar often, too. So, I ended up staying for a few more hours to continue to learn these games! Also, Shanon knows how to play Mah Jong, so he is going to teach me to play this!
Monday I didn’t not have to teach at the university because it was a holiday. That is why I was willing to stay out so late on Sunday night learning the games from Shanon. I met with Shanon at 2 in the afternoon to work on singing One Night in Beijing and Bu De Bu Ai. We started off by having him print off the lyrics in Chinese, then we started with One Night in Beijing. He wrote the words in pinyin (which is English letters with the symbols for the four tones), and taught me how to say each word. We practiced his English by having him explain the meanings of the words to me. We did not get very far, as after going through the lyrics of One Night in Bejing, I put the papers in my bag and Shanon saw that I had my computer. He then asked to hear my music and to look through it. We spent the next two hours talking about American music. Oops! Looks like we didn’t get through Bu De Bu Ai! We decided to do it next time we meet. We decided it was a good thing, because know I won’t feel overwhelmed having the words of two songs to learn at once. After I was done hanging out with Shanon I had to go to the private school to teach. I was teaching the little kids, but it was very fun. I was very happy because it was obvious that they had all practiced between classes, this making my job much easier. I had suckers in my bag, so they all got a sucker for practicing their English between classes! After my class ended, I met with Di for dinner. Then we headed to the bar for a drink. Dinner with nothing exciting. We went to BBQ. WE got some grilled veggies and some chicken and lamb. I love the cheap eats at the BBQ! Luckily the weather is getting consistently nicer to the BBQs are open on a nightly basis now. We then headed to the bar for a drink. We were just going to stay for one drink. Once we got there, Jennifer came over asking me to play pool with her. Luckily she is not very good at pool, so I am able to win about half the time. Shanon just stands in the corner and laughs at how bad both of us are. We were then trying to leave, but Shanon asked us to stay for one more drink so he could talk with us, because he want to continue practicing his English. Di decided to leave, but I stayed for about another hour.
Sorry, kind of a long Blog entry, but it was a really fun weekend! Nothing too exciting going on this week. Tuesday is my long day. I have: teaching from 820-10, Chinese class from 1010-1150, lunch with Mr. Lei, chill for a little bit on campus, teach from 320-5. I then have to clean the apartment again. It is getting to be a huge mess. Nothing else really is going on for the rest of the week. I am going to continue learning the songs, guitar and Chinese from Shanon and then also will continue to teach him and Jennifer English! Also, on Thursday I will make western dinner for them as they have not had a western dinner before. Shanon said he wants to try a lot of different American foods, and he doesn’t care if they are necessarily foods that we would eat together for a normal meal. So, I will make one box of mac and cheese, one package of speghetti, mashed potatoes, steamed veggies (carrots, potatoes, celery and egg plant), Hamburgers (with all the fix-ins!) and some devilled eggs. Yea, I know..random collection, but with the ingredients that I have from trips to Beijing and that I took with me back to America (and the few ingredients that I can get here in Chengde), that is all I can really make. For desert, we will have Cheesecake. As a late birthday gift, Rosie made me a cheesecake that she gave to me on Saturday. I put it in the freezer as I knew I wouldn’t eat it very fast. So, we will have some of it on Thursday.
Alright, hope all is well.
Z
This past weekend was great. I taught on Friday at the University, nothing really too exciting there. Then went and taught my little students at Dong’s school. After that, I had a guitar lesson with Shanyn. We changed the way that he spells his name, too. Because Shanon is normally a female’s name, but his name sounds like Shanon, we thought that changing the spelling would be cooler. So, we decided that since he is the lead singer in a rock band and because he plays guitar, that his name needed to be more “rocker”ish. So, we changed the spelling to Shanyn. Our lesson started at about 715 and lasted for about 4 hours. We worked on guitar for about two hours, then worked on singing Bu De Bu Ai and then practiced some Chinese. Next week I will give him an English lesson. Then we went to the bar and we met Chris and Megan for a drink. We played Never Have I Ever with Shanyn and Harry. We left around 12:30 though, because we were tired. Also, Shanyn and Harry along with some of their friends were leaving at five am to go fishing the next day, so we didn’t want to make them feel like they had to stay up with us. So, after we left the bar, I went home and called it a night.
Saturday was pretty uneventful. I met with Chris and Megan and we hung out around the park for a little while. We then went to the Tree restaurant for dinner. I love that restaurant. It is Sichuan style so the food is very spicy. They also have the best egg plant and potatoe dish in the city, I think. Geez, I never at this much egg plant before coming to China. Then after dinner, I went to Megan and Chris’s and we watched “Election”. Gotta love that movie. Then, I got a text from Maggie and Laura that workers were coming to my apartment so I had to go back to my place in the middle of the movie, unfortunately. After the workers left, I met up with Meghan and Ceceilia who were just leaving a bbq with some of Cecelia’s Chinese friends. We then headed to the bar for a drink and some KTV. We hung out at the bar with Cecelia, her friends, Shanyn, Yun and Harry until around 1.
Sunday Di had some couch surfers stay. One was from Korea and one was from California. David and Andy were their names. They were both studying Chinese in Beijing. Their Chinese were very good. So, I me them for dinner. It was a good time. We went to the Korean BBQ. Following dinner, we went to the public square for some dancing with the local Chinese people and to play some shuttle cock (Chinese hackey sack). Then we headed to the bar for a drink. Shanyn was very excited, because he was able to practice his English with two new foreigners. He was nervous at first because there was a Korean and it is an accent that he is not used to, but he grew more confident after time went on.
Monday was pretty fun. I met up with Di and his couch surfers at Punning Temple at 7 in the morning. I did not know that there were monks that actually lived at the temple. So we were able to observe some of the morning rituals and prayers of the monk community living at this temple. The other cool thing about this site is that it has the largest wood carving of the Buddha in the world. It is amazing. I think one of the workers said it is 66 meters tall (but I might have misheard because my Chinese is awful). After that, I headed to school to collect salary and then go to the bank. I taught in the afternoon at the university. This week in my classes, I am playing a game with my students called Tuerettes. For this game, I have made sets of cards with all of the letters of the alphabet on them. Each group received 150 cards with one letter on each card. Then the students got into groups of five. One person would be the “dealer” and would be the person to flip over the card. Everyone would then see the letter, lets say it is “P”. Then, the students must race to see who can say the first word to start with P. However, there are some rules. You must say a noun. You cannot say a proper noun or a bad word. If the students was first, then they got to keep the card. The student with the most cards at the end won. This was just kind of a way to see how many words my students really know and to make them try to think quickly in English. They seemed to enjoy the game, I think. We also did a preposition activity to learn the correct ways to use prepositions and prepositional phrases. With my little kids at Dongs school, we learned things in the kitchen. Their vocabulary words were:. Chopsticks, fork, forks, knife, knives, spoon, spoons, glasses, cups, plates, oven, microwave, toaster, bowl and bowls. We then also worked on “there are”, “they’re”, “there is” and “there’s”. After I was done teaching, I met Di for some hot pot. The hot pot that we went to had the BEST carrots. It was delicious.
It’s now Tuesday and that’s my busy day. I teach from 820-10, then I attend Chinese class with the students from Pakistan from 10:10-11:50. After that class, Meghan and I are having lunch with our friend Mr. Lei. He is the coolest guy ever. He is a teacher in the international teaching department and is a very good friend to Meghan and me. After lunch, I will then do some work and then I teach from 320-5. After that, I am going to go tback to my apartment and clean a little bit.
That’s about it. Hope all is well….